We all want our wedding to be a memorable event. Not only for our guests but for ourselves and our partner as well. Even though there are all sorts of details that go into wedding planning, there are a few things you can do to really take your wedding celebration to the next level. Keep reading on to find out how to make your wedding a celebration that no one will ever forget!

Take in the moment

Your wedding isn’t only important for your guests to remember but for you and your partner as well. With how busy and stressful wedding planning can get, it can be hard to savor the moment and truly appreciate it for what it is. On your wedding day, take a step back with your partner and truly take in the moment. This wedding day is about the two of you declaring your love for one another so make sure you do exactly that. If you wrote personal vows to one another, you can recite them in front of only the two of you if you want to keep them private. If you get each other meaningful gifts, use that moment to exchange them with each other. However it is that you want to really celebrate the occasion, use the private moment to do exactly that.

Host it at an unique location

One of the most memorable aspects of a wedding is where it’s being held. If you really want your wedding to be unforgettable, host it at an amazing location. As more weddings are held at venues and churches, if you really want to be different, think outside the box. You could go for a destination wedding and have it somewhere tropical, such as Hawaii or Mexico. Or if you and your partner are both big fans of the sea, you can host your wedding on a cruise, the beach or right near the water. If you’re still in need of inspiration, look to Pinterest for unique weddings and events for ideas. Thinking outside the box and having it at a unique location will be sure to make your wedding one to remember.

Add in fun colors

What’s a better way to make a wedding memorable than by having it be a colorful affair. Even though weddings are always hueful events, there are little ways to add in extra color that your guests won’t see coming. One way is through your accessories. While many brides wear common colored accessories such as silver, white and gold, brides can add even more color into their look by wearing colorful jewelry. Opting for colorful jewelry such as blue, red, or even green can help make such a difference in your overall look and make you a stand-out bride. Another fun way to add in color throughout your look is through your hair. If you want to be daring for your big day, look into adding in fun colors throughout your hair style. Since there are so many ways you can add in colors, you’ll likely need a bit of inspiration. You can easily acquire this by looking into oVertone’s Pinterest page for hair inspiration aimed to make every woman embrace her own unique style.

It’s all about the music

One of the most memorable and looked forward to events from weddings is the dancing and the music. If you really want your wedding to be a party all night, make sure to have a band or a DJ that will be able to do just that. It’s important that you choose music that represents both you and your partner as a couple but that you also choose classic hits that are known to be a party starter. Play the classic group dancing songs like the Macarena, the Cha Cha Slide, and Cotton Eye Joe but also mix it up with rock or current popular hits. Having a variety of music offerings will definitely be noticed by your guests and will keep them dancing all night long!

Your wedding is probably the happiest and most important day of your life. However, looking for the right dress can be a stressful experience. Below are some casual wedding dress tips for light-hearted brides.

Choosing a Suitable Wedding Dress

Country Style

A country-style dress is perfect for a laid-back wedding. With a low-key event, you can have a beautiful gown that’s also low priced, for example, you can have a stunning design with vintage lace. Consider adding details such as elegant ruffles to highlight that country look. Finish off the dress by adorning it with a simple flower crown and classic jewellery.

Bohemian Style

The Bohemian look comes in multiple styles, but they all share the same feminine aesthetic with a carefree twist. Bohemian style is also suitable for outdoor casual ceremonies, is perfect for trendy outdoor receptions, is comfortable during the summertime and is ideal for rustic or barn weddings. For this particular dress, crochet and lace fabrics are the perfect selection. To further enhance the boho aesthetic, consider going for long, flowing elegance.

Vintage Style

You can get a taste of the past by opting for a vintage wedding dress. You can go for any era as an alternative to a contemporary dress and can choose a gown decorated with crystals, beads or pearls. However, make sure that you don’t add too much. Consider choosing a simple dress that also creates a luxurious look.

For Summer Weddings

For summer weddings, it’s best to wear a gown that’s both floaty and relaxed. To keep your cool, choose lightweight material such as chiffon or silk. A halter-neck, spaghetti-strap or strapless dress can provide relief from the heat while projecting a feminine, sexy look. A summer wedding allows you to choose a variety of styles.

For Winter Weddings

Fortunately, you can stay warm without having to sacrifice your wedding dress style. The easiest way to add warmth is by complementing your gown with sleeves. For further warmth, consider adding extra layers. The best defence against the chill is stylishly combined outer wear.

With Sleeves

Sleeves can create an air of elegance, so why not consider adding them? If you want to project a classic and romantic look, sleeves are perfect. Fashion experts believe that a minimally designed dress combined with lace detail will impress your partner and guests alike. Sleeves in wedding gowns are timeless favourites.

High Low Hem

A high low hem creates an asymmetrical design – short at the front but long at the back, providing a contrast. This dress style gives an exquisite, elegant appearance as you walk down the aisle. In addition, the high-low appearance is an opportunity to display your legs and shoes. While this dress style is considered non-traditional, the design has been around for a long time. There are several designs you can choose from: you can consider a sharp contrast between lengths, back and front, or go for a more subtle look with less difference in length. Whichever high-low gown you choose, it will make you stand out on your wedding day.

Sexy

Donning a sexy dress will certainly turn heads on your wedding day. It’s a confident choice for brides who like to create an impression. To perfect the appearance, choose a fitted dress that highlights your figure. Another sexy alternative is to have a low-cut neckline to provide allure and style. Consider picking materials such as lace or silk.

Plus Size

There are some stunning wedding dresses for plus size brides, with various styles and shapes for highlighting your curves, for example, mermaid tyle. An A plus dress can also flatter an hourglass figure, accentuating the hips.

Choosing The Right Footwear

A farm wedding is no place for heels or stilettos. So, consider opting for footwear that’s more practical. If you want to dance outdoors, you can opt for wedges, block heels or cowboy boots. To make it work, ensure that your shoes complement your dress. Fortunately, many farm wedding venues such as CrockwellFarm.co.uk offer outdoor and indoor wedding ceremonies and receptions. So, you can switch to suitable footwear depending on whether you’re outside or inside.

In Conclusion

A casual wedding dress creates a relaxed, laid-back style and gives you the freedom to wear material that feels comfortable on your skin, at the same time creating a stylish look. For footwear, you need to wear something comfortable. Depending on your wedding dress, you can choose footwear ranging from cowboy boots to strappy sandals.

Author’s Bio

Harriet Thame is the marketing head at Crockwell Farm, a venue specialising in barn weddings.

Read this guide to find out everything you need to know about wedding guest list etiquette.

Getting Started 

Before you get started on your wedding guest list, you will need to know three things: 

1. Your budget
2. Your venue capacity 
3. The cost-per-head at your venue

This will help you to set a limit on how many people you can afford to invite. After this, you will need to chat with your partner and create the first draft on a spreadsheet. If it’s under your limit – fantastic! If not – then you will need to look into cutting guests. 

Culling Your Guest List

This task is never easy, but we find that taking a systematic approach works best. Sort each name on your spreadsheet into an A, B or C-list. A-listers being non-negotiable (e.g. family members, best friends) and C-listers will be nice-to-haves (e.g. colleagues, distant relatives). Following this, you will need to categorise your guests into sub-groups (e.g. college friends, old work colleagues etc.). The best way to avoid hurt feelings is by cutting entire groups, so you may want to consider foregoing on plus-ones or having a child-free wedding. Don’t forget that you can invite anyone who didn’t make the list to your after-party. 

Stand Your Ground

At the end of the day, this is your wedding so you and your fiancé will have the final say on who does and doesn’t make the list. You may face some pressure from family and friends, but it’s important to stand by your decisions. If you make an exception for one person, you’ll have problems if you don’t do it for everyone and before you know it your budget will be spiralling out of control. 

Track Your RSVPs

Add an RSVP column to your spreadsheet in which you can track attendee responses. If someone cancels early enough you may be able to offer their space to someone else instead. Be sure to follow-up with non-responders to ensure that you have confirmation from everyone. 

How to Make the Perfect Guest ListThis infographic from The Wedding Band Shop offers some great tried and tested to help you as you design your wedding guest list.

So you’ve found “the one” and are ready to get down on one knee and make the commitment to a lifetime of love with your soulmate. Now it’s time to plan your proposal and make it as special as your significant other is! Here are some tips to help you pull off the perfect proposal.

The symbol of love

If you’re not sure what style of ring your bride (or groom!) to-be likes, be sure to check with their mom, sister, and best friends. Chances are this topic is something that your partner has discussed with their friends and family and they will be able to guide you in the right direction! If your significant other has a Pinterest, you can even try looking through their boards. Your significant other may have pinned a few engagement rings ideas, so this is a great starting point! If you’re having trouble finding the perfect ring, online jewelers like Blue Nile make it easy to shop for engagement rings directly online.

Involve her family and loved ones

If you think your significant other would enjoy having her family and loved ones there to be a part of this special moment, invite them to hide out of sight until after you’ve got down on one knee. Whether her friends and family bring bottles of champagne, confetti poppers, flowers, and other celebratory materials or simply just surprise her after you’ve popped the question, her happy response to see her friends and family cheering you on during the special moment will be worth your efforts. If you want the moment to be more private, rather than having friends and family join you at the location, put together a surprise engagement party at your home or a local restaurant to celebrate you and your new bride-to-be with your friends and family.

Location, location, location

When planning your proposal, think of a location that means something to you and your partner. Whether it’s the park where you met or the restaurant where you had your first date, choosing a location that has special meaning to you and your future spouse is crucial. This is a great way to reflect on your time together as a couple and nod to the beautiful moments that got you to where you are today in your relationship.

It’s all in the timing

When it comes to proposing, timing is a tricky thing. Your best bet is to go with the moment that feels right. With that being said, you can still put a bit of planning into when you actually get down on one knee. For example, if you’re planning on proposing at a restaurant instead of working up your nerves through dinner and dessert, pop the question early on in the evening. This way, you and your fiancé can both celebrate together throughout the evening and your nerves don’t get in the way of enjoying your meal!

Speak from your heart

It can be tough to get your feelings across due to your nerves and excitement. A few weeks before popping the question it may be a good idea to sit down and get your ideas together. However, you shouldn’t be following a script word for word. You don’t want your proposal to seem rehearsed. Even if you stumble over your words, real, heartfelt expressions of your love are going to be what makes your proposal so special. Take your time, don’t rush through and speak from your heart. All of this is what makes your partner feel truly loved and adored.

Hire a professional photographer

Your engagement will be one of the most special moments in you and your fiancé’s lives together. Hiring a professional photographer to capture this beautiful moment will take your proposal to the next level and add to the excitement. It’s also a great way to look back on this memory for years to come and show off the way that you proposed! Your photographer can also help with planning your proposal — from choosing a location to coming up with a diversion.

Check out these helpful guides below for tips on how to choose the perfect ring for your partner and find your perfect wedding band match!

Amanda H. a diamond and wedding enthusiast.

We are happy to present a blog post inspired by Warby Parker.

It’s important to make sure you make your bridesmaids feel special on your wedding day! They have planned showers, a bachelorette, and have been there for moral support, your bride tribe is constantly ensuring your day goes off without a hitch. You can say “thank you” a million times, but it’s still important to take time to think of thoughtful and personal gifts for your bridesmaids so they feel just as special as they have made you feel through the months of wedding planning.

The last thing you want to do is nonchalantly give your girls a Starbucks gift card (unless they love their daily coffee) and a general thank you note that you could have given anyone. Take time to think about what each of your ladies loves and go from there.

Jewelry

Diamonds are truly a girl’s best friend. This is a gift you can get for everyone in your bridal party while still picking out individual pieces that each person will love. If you want to buy jewelry that they can wear at your wedding, head to one specific jeweler and pick out a different piece for everyone! That way, they will be of similar style, but someone who hates earrings won’t be stuck wearing long dangly ones. This shows you put thought and care into what you are gifting your girls.

Accessories

Other accessories you can get your bridesmaids are things like clutches or sunglasses. If you want your bridesmaids to have the comfort of having their belongings nearby for the ceremony and reception but still want them to match the theme of your wedding, gift them all clutches or small handbags. This is another gift you can customize for each girl’s personality.

If your wedding has a more casual and fun vibe, a great gift for awesome photos is sunglasses. Get you and your ladies in matching sunglasses by bulk ordering them. Save yourself time and money by ordering for your whole bridal party in one purchase. You will have a gift that keeps giving; it’s always nice to give something that can be utilized long after your special day.

Beauty Products

If you and your friends are all beauty obsessed then gifting skincare or makeup products is something they will be sure to love! There’s many ways to do this but one my favorites is to gift a skin-care basket that can be used the morning of the wedding. Put together a basket filled with things like a brightening mask, under eye cream, a nail brush, hand lotion, and even a nude lipstick or nail polish. This will ensure that you and your ladies have a fun time getting ready and will offer you all cute photos! Plus, this shows you put time and care in putting together a personal gift for them.

Home Decor

This is another route you can take to get very personal with your gifting, but will take a little more time. You know your bridesmaids very well and can take this in any direction you want, but here are a few cute and small ideas that are easy to gift for a wedding day “thank you.” Jewelry boxes, small dishes or vases are versatile and can be used in many different ways as cute decor. Wall signage that displays your girl’s personality, whether it’s a quote from their favorite TV show or idol. Small family games like “What Do You Meme” or “Charades” so they can take it home for family fun night. Again, the options are endless here and probably don’t have a thing to do with your wedding. But again, it’s showing that you care about gifting them something thoughtful after all they have done for you during your wedding prep!

Gifting for your bridesmaids doesn’t have to be complicated, make sure you aren’t just gifting them something they will keep, just because. Simple make sure you take time to think about what each person would like best and even give a gift that they can use long after your wedding. The most important thing is to thank your lovely ladies for that they have done for you up until this very moment when you’re ready to say “I do!”

New blog post today, it is about The Black Tux, suit and tuxedo rentals  in the USA and Spring Colour Trends of 2018.

They have collated three on trend colour themes for spring this year. First up is lilac and a moody rich shade of forest green styled with a soft tan suit, perfect for a laid back relaxed exotic wedding.

Lilac and Green Spring 2018

Next we have the ever popular vintage combination of blush pink and grey. Floaty soft blush pink bridal dresses, rose gold accessories, organic floral arrangements, vintage linens and the groom decked out in tones of silver grey.

Blush and Grey Spring 2018

And…. finally we have Slate Grey and Moss, dark inky slate suites, light slate blue bridesmaids dress, soft ivory roses in contrast to spiky sea thistles and succulents as well as mossy green foliage to complete the look.

Slate and Moss Spring 2018

If you love these colour combinations please checkout The Black Tux’s tuxedo and suit rentals!

Choosing Wedding Invitations For Your Summer Wedding

The weather is heating up and the wedding season is almost upon us. Sunshine, long days and warm nights: what better than a Summer wedding? Many people choose to use the season of their wedding as inspiration for their wedding theme, and Summer gives a tonne of beautiful options.

Your wedding invitation suite is your opportunity to set the scene for your guests before the actual day, so they know what to expect! Most people drop hints about the style and theme of the wedding in their save the dates and wedding invitations, so if you want your wedding to be Summer-inspired, the invitation is the perfect place to start.

Inspired by the beach

There’s nothing that represents Summer as well as the ocean. Whether you’re inspired by far-off tropical destinations or the seaside a little closer to home, sun, sand and water are the way to go. If the beach is your muse, consider incorporating plenty of blue in your colour palette alongside textures that remind you of waves. You can give a subtle nod with a watercolour invite, or go bold with a photographic card or wave illustrations.

Inspired by sunshine

Summer is characterised by warmth and sunshine, of course, so why not channel that into your wedding invitations? If you’re opting for digital prints, choose yellow, orange and red for your colour scheme. You could also choose metallic inks to add a little something extra. If your budget allows it, go all out with gold foil stamped wedding invitations. Not only is the gold colour a perfect representation of golden sun rays, but it will also reflect the light around it to really bring a little sunshine to your invitation suite.

Inspired by the dry landscape

The hot Summer sun can really dry out the landscape, especially if you’re in certain parts of the world (we know, we’re from Australia!). This might not sound pretty, but it really can be. Take inspiration from the dried-out bush with natural browns and greens, and consider imagery that incorporates leaves and dried flowers, grass and shrubs. This just screams rustic wedding, and works especially well if you’re going to be in a barn or on a farm with hay and dry paddocks around.

Inspired by flowers

Flowers can sometimes feel more like Spring than Summer, but they’re definitely a key part of Summer too! Summer weddings are often held in gardens and bees buzzing from bloom to bloom are part of the soundtrack of the season. Add some colour to your otherwise simple invitations with small flower illustrations, or go for full-coverage floral patterns to really make a statement. Floral and botanical designs never go out of style for weddings, no matter what time of year they are being held.

Summer is the most popular season for weddings, for good reason! There’s so much beauty already present in the environment that it’s easy to draw inspiration from your surroundings. Whether you’re a beach bunny, a sun worshipper, a flower child or something else entirely, incorporate your Summer vibes into your wedding invitations to fully set the scene for your guests. Nothing will make them as excited for your big day!

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